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Clearing Process for Professionals

Responsibility:

Responsibility begins with the willingness to communicate, to tell the story, to relate an incident, from cause, from how you caused it.

Responsibility has absolutely nothing to do with blame or fault.

Examples:

Blame statement: He won't answer my questions.
Responsible statement: I don't know how to have him answer my questions.

Blame statement: She won't do her homework.
Responsible statement: I don't know how to have her do her homework.

Blame statement: He always lies to me.
Responsible statement: I don't know how to create a safe space for him to tell me the truth.

Blame statement: My wife cheated on me.
Responsible statement: I don't know how I did it but I'm willing to discover how I, using my leadership-communication skills, drove my wife into the arm's of another.



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