Confront

Confront:  To cause to meet, bring face-to-face. To be with through to comfortableness.

For example: I confronted my fear of being yelled at and now I can even choose to yell if I wish. That is to say, I no longer self-righteously make myself or someone who is yelling wrong.  Coincidentally, the conversations with my parents that brought about this transformation supported my father in completing dozens of incompletes having to do with anger; he has not yelled at me or my mother since our conversations.  It seems as though I now have the ability to both get his communications and to  create space for him to yell and so he has no need to raise his voice in anger and frustration.

Another example: For some people the words prick, cock, and penis are uncomfortable to utter, hear, or read. To master intercourse one must be comfortable with all words. Any word that's uncomfortable to say, hear, or read is said to have a charge for the person; the person is said to be at effect of the word. Most children are admonished to not use such words and when they do they are punished/made-wrong. Unfortunately the parent or adult ensures that the child will react for life to such words.

Communications disappear the charge so that the word cock and spaghetti have the same reaction. No blushing, no self-righteous judgment, no nothing. They have no charge, no right or wrong.

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