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How to use The Clearing Process
Step 1: Read this page of
instructions, tips, and notes.
Step 2: Read the Sample Clearing (see link below).
Step 3: Read the FAQs.
Step 4:
Begin Clearing.
1)
After you have read this page, the sample clearing,
and the FAQs click on Begin Clearing.
A new browser window will open. It will take you to
The Clearing Process Message Board (it's free - registration required). You'll still have this page
with these instructions in the background.
2) On the
message board click on "new
topic."
3) Enter the word
"Clearing" as the subject.
4)
Write spontaneously whatever comes to mind. Empty your mind. Don't worry about spelling, punctuation, or grammar—swearing, blaming,
and lying is
allowed. Don't correct or edit it to look good,
nice, or smart, just post it.
5) Watch and
see what happens in the next few days. The more
candid and honest the more value. Used daily, say
for five days in a row, the process will produce even
more value.
6) Then, come back in a few days and post a brief
acknowledgement of the value we co-created. Acknowledgment expands
upon the value, it completes our relationship, and
creates space for even more value. The ultimate
acknowledgment is a
donation
(optional).
Tip 1
The
most value to be gotten from clearing is to recall
and share your very first lie, your very first
theft, the very first time you did something sneaky,
the very first time you cheated, the very first time
you were abusive to another (these firsts are
referred to as incompletes). If you can't recall a
first incident, from which patterns were
formed (unconscious decisions were made) then begin by recalling and sharing your
second, third, and all subsequent incidents. Or,
begin with your most recent (such as yesterday's)
and work your way back in time.
Tip 2
Read
Reunion Conversations.
If you read each page it will trigger memories of
incompletes.
Remember, what you're looking for is unacknowledged
perpetrations and withholds, things you have hidden
from others or even yourself.
Tip 3
Do
the mini-tutorial (About
Lies and Lying) it will triggers memories
of unacknowledged perpetrations.
Tip 4
After
your first clearing, your first post, come back
here and reread everything. It will make more
sense the second time around. It will remind you
to look for your firsts
as you post your next clearing.
Note #1
In your clearing please do not comment on, refer to, or reply to other's posts.
It won't work to compare your post with others.
Yours will be unique.
Note
#2 Use the
Message
Board or your tutorial
Message Board to ask
questions or to deliver
feedback/suggestion communications.
Note
#3 All posts are read and
gotten (acknowledged) by the coach, and by agreement,
nothing is done with them.
Note #4 Do not ask questions or use the
clearing process as a means of delivering
communications to the tutorial coach. For example:
If you acknowledge in a clearing that you have
murdered someone, the coach is bound to not address
the subject of murder until you bring it up in a
tutorial message board.
Note #5
The Clearing Process works to the degree that you're
willing to communicate openly, honestly, and
spontaneously. To choose to lie or deceive
(including withholding thoughts) adds to the
confusion, of whether undesirable results are a
consequence of your integrity or simply the effects
of your leadership-communication skills.
Note
#6 If your
perpetrations are legally seriousmurder, rape,
felony, etc.. first go
here.
Here's a
sample
of what a clearing might look like.
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