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Communication and the Immune System
· Can you recall your
very first lie to a parent and what was going on
throughout your body/mind as, and after, you lied?
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· Do you know what’s going on in your body/mind and your “victim’s”
body/mind while you are raising your voice in anger, when you are
verbally abusing another?
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Has a lie, a deceit, or a blaming abusive communication (that you have
yet to acknowledge to yourself or another as being abusive) been
affecting your health, your immune system?
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· What happened throughout your body/mind the very first time you
experienced your parents violently* verbally abusing each other?
(possibly while in utero)
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As you told your very first childhood lie you unconsciously transformed
yourself from a trustworthy person of integrity (magically having life
and relationships work) to someone needing to get caught for a
perpetration. Something was different after the lie, more so if you have
yet to acknowledge, or to be acknowledged, for that specific
lie. Sleep that night wasn't as sound and refreshing as before.**
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Our body's fight/flight survival mechanisms kick in. Blood pressure,
pulse and heart rate increase. Neurons begin firing orders to release
various chemicals—adrenaline, cortisone, testosterone, endorphins,
bile-generating stress hormones, etc., all resulting in drastic
unhealthy changes to our gut's micro-biome. Neural pathways originally
configured for healthy growth and learning now have additional
tasks—mental and physical healing—restoring one’s integrity.
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Any
perpetration (an abuse, deception or lie that has not been completed through to
mutual satisfaction) occupies space in the mind, each one is referred to
as an incomplete. Incompletes*** sap consciousness, they serve as barriers
to communication, to creativity, to manifesting one’s stated intentions. Arrogance is thinking you got away with it, that it hasn’t
been affecting present-day results for you and yours. 4 As you experienced the first angry exchange between your mother and father (for many it was while still in the womb) it was a life-threatening scary shock; it did not feel good (in utero or out the negative vibrations are the same). Your heart began beating faster, your fear mechanisms kicked in. * "violently" —family counseling research has shown that a child attending family counseling with his/her parents, who is connected to monitors, experiences parents with demon-looking faces violently arguing; it affects the child's heart rate, their stress hormones, their gut’s biome, their very immune system.
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"sleep" —children
who have to be “re-woke” several times each morning are non-verbally
dramatizing an incomplete,
a significant thought they are withholding, typically an unacknowledged
perpetration.
Also, it ain’t no fun waking up to the psychic vibrations of
upset/arguing parents who are also emanating waves of deception between
them, both abusively deceiving each other. Do the
Clearing Process for a Parent and a Young Person/Teen <
comcom121.org/clearing/child.htm
> it’s free, it restores and maintains everyone’s integrity.
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"incomplete" —all incompletes and their undesirable consequences
can be completed through communication.
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