Communication Skills Tutorial for Vets
. . . in support of relationship-communication mastery.
A free tutorial and password-protected forum for veterans.
The vast majority of
people carry thousands of
incompletes around
for life. Life's incompletes serve as barriers to the experience of
communication, of love, of being-here-now (in present-time), and to
consistently manifesting one's stated intentions.
Vets who have not completed their military experiences
unconsciously drag remnants of incompletes into each present-day
interaction, each conversation. Without their
uniform no one really
knows them. Some become, "I'd rather not talk
about it," "You can't possibly understand" "I'm too
humble to talk about it" drama queens.
No branch of the military, nor the VA staff,
know how to
clear a vet, consequently, vets are released back into society
with thousands (yes, thousands) of incompletes (things for which
they have not been acknowledged).
A vet who is complete experiences happiness and laughs easily
throughout most of each day. A vet who is incomplete is emotionally
bound up and seldom
happy, they routinely unconsciously create
communication breakdowns that sap the aliveness and energy of
those around him/her.
The single-most barrier to happiness for many wounded vets is their
perpetual condition of being out-integrity. They live with the
consideration that if they get "better" their disability pension
might be reduced. A vet
intuitively knows that if they communicate their experiences
truthfully the effects will disappear or be somewhat minimized, consequently, they control
friends and relatives (keeping them incomplete and unable to assist
in the healing). This is both abusive and unethical. Most vets master
lying to VA staff for which there are
undesirable compounding consequences.
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