Quotes from our tutorials and Dear Gabby letters.
Communication Tips for the Holidays
Conversations about these topics will support you
in completing one or more incompletes.*
The physics of this
"nature abhors a vacuum"
phenomenon can be observed when you
clean a closet and donate the old clothing; within months the closet
will be filled with clothing that more nearly expresses who
you are today.** When you complete something, specifically a
relationship, such as delivering a significant withhold, it creates
space for an entirely new relationship and new outcomes.
For example:
* An incomplete
refers to any significant withhold between two, or,
interactions (communications) that were not mutually satisfying.
Withholding a significant thought from a loved is abusive; specifically,
it causes them to be
incomplete with little or no joy throughout each day. They don’t know
what’s wrong; they just know that they are not experiencing love.
BTW: When you withhold a
significant thought from your partner it causes (yes causes) him/her to
withhold a significant thought from you. Withholders always attract
withholders. "significant" — a thought which if delivered might
cause upset or anger; all deceit is abusive. ** Every time we look in our closets
we see clothes that remind us of our addiction to accepting something
other than exactly what we
believe we went shopping for, our unconscious intentions.
For support in being complete do The [free] Clearing Process—it’s about restoring and maintaining ones integrity.
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