Considerations
Posted: Sat Sep 10, 2011 1:07 am
Because of a registration glitch PathofLove emailed this to me to post here: It consists of a series of emails. I include them so that a reader can follow what's been happening.
Hi Kerry, I registered . . . so that I could continue communicating with you on the board, but you have not approved it yet. I don't want to wait any longer to respond to you, so I am continuing this communication now, to be transferred to the board if you see fit.
Thanks for the validation, encouragement and suggestions about clearing. You're welcome.
Re: "A lie is just a lie, it's a result produced." "It's possible to keep recalling a perpetration that you've ack'd because there's something else about it that is complete..." Yes! I found this very helpful, and it brought a lot a light to my process of breaking down where the incomplete is. It's almost never in the actual perpetration. This has allowed me to see myself in a new way, retroactively. I think it's called "remembering correctly." That's great. For example, whenever someone breaks an agreement with you they are setting it up to get caught for the broken agreement and hopefully, (if you're sharp enough), to get acknowledged for an earlier and similar perpetration.
Re: donating
Hmm. This is a tough one for me to communicate. There is a lot of work I want to do here--clearing, consultation, and the Abuse, Health, and Ideal Partner tutorials. I am excited about the truth I am finding on your website and in our communications, and I am excited about it being free. I don't know how you do it or why, but this "free"-dom has allowed me to experience something and say "yes" to something that I would have found barriers to had you been charging for it. There would have come the argument, "Is it worth this much money? Can I afford it?" When money is taken out of the equation, it gives me a chance to experience the value of the service without persuasion or coercion. And for me, it removes the entitlement, expectation, and obligation between the provider and the receiver. I have experienced before in expensive groups what I recognize now as an unconscious laziness in terms of my own work: "I have paid all this money, now what are you going to do for me?" Here, I am experiencing a blooming of my own initiative and motivation, and I truly thank you for letting me have this authority and responsibility. I thank you for choosing to offer this opportunity, and I thank the forces that have allowed you to do so. You're welcome.
I don't feel feel like donating right now. I want that to be clear. I want to donate when it feels right to, not because you remind me. I recognize that everyone has their tipping point, where free was okay, but now free is not okay, both on the giving end, and on the receiving end. i haven't reached my tipping point yet. All after, "I don't feel . . . now." was mind stuff, reasons your mind manufactured so as to not have to surrender to my support. I want to make it clear that your explanations have nothing to do with the truth. Your considerations are perfectly understandable; me, I couldn't/wouldn't give chocolates or flowers or whatever, because every other dude in the country was doing the same thing. I wanted to do it without being prompted. It was embarrassing to have to be reminded to acknowledge a loved one. I kept waiting for my natural acknowledgmentness to kick in; it never did. The more you resist donating the more it consumes you, the more you become your position. It remains in the space between us. There's a communication model in which you set it up for me to say something, to make a suggestion, given that point of view we must ask what the genius in you is up to that you would decline my support. It could be said that you unconsciously set it up for me to remind you to donate, because you had yet to realize what a truly remarkable opportunity this is for you. What you can't see is that by supporting me/us you empower me in my relationship with you, in supporting you in manifesting your stated intentions. Two barriers to manifesting ones stated intentions come to mind: A resistance to acknowledging others, and to being supportable. I'm want to say, one way to complete this is to make a donation larger than you feel comfortable with, generosity to the max and watch what happens.
It would be nice to know if there is an opportunity to acknowledge with in-kind donations. I like it when organizations have a "wish list" of services or products needed to run the place. It gives a different experience to acknowledge (and be acknowledged) with something other than money, and sometimes goods and services are available when cash isn't. More of the same mind stuff. I can see my invitation to donate pushed your button. Not to worry; if this issue is, as I suspect, the source of certain problems then we've done good work. Who else in your life would say they don't feel good because you never or seldom thought to buy them flowers?Cheers,
(as PathofLove)
On Thu, Sep 1, 2011 at 6:12 PM, Kerry <admin@comcom121.org> wrote:
Hi PathofLove,
You're welcome.
Re: " I acknowledge that I feel pressure to remember firsts." Got it. For me it's similar to meditating, I go unconscious and find myself thinking thoughts, I then make myself wrong and get back on track keeping in mind to breath. With clearing it works whether you know or think it's working providing you're willing to communicate openly, honestly, and spontaneously. Eventual the stuff that's covered up by other thoughts will pop to the surface. Aim for first lie, theft, temper-tantrum, deceit, abuse, etc. and take what comes up.
Re: ". . . i don't feel badly about them" That's the objective. If you had been communicated with after telling your first lie, you would have been coached by a parent lovingly and then it would be complete. A lie is just a lie, it's a result produced. I had bacon and eggs for my sixth birthday and then I stole money from my dad's pocket. Neither result is bad nor should I feel badly. Both results are complete except for the memory but without the charge. You were supposed to have committed all the childhood perps you did so as to arrive at choice. If you make yourself wrong then you have to set up life to do it again and again, until you get that it was just a result, it's just what's so, so what! It was in fact necessary to your growth, to getting here. It's possible to keep recalling a perpetration that you've ack'd because there's something else about it that is complete, say, I forgot to ack my mom for the nice b-day breakfast, or that I gave the money I stole to a friend and have yet to be ack'd for being a generous thief.
Re: "I acknowledge I feel pressure from you to do the clearings in a certain way. I feel pressure to follow someone else's example that may or may not feel natural to me." Got it. Follow the format until you know that you're not hiding anything from anyone. I'll be able to tell from a clearing if you're operating in the here and now, in present time. As long as your intention is to empty your mind, the biggies, if there are any left, will pop to the surface. Quite often they come up during the day when say, I find myself being rude or short. Later when clearing (I've been clearing with one client 3-hrs-per-session every other week for 17 years) I'll remember that the incident was associated with an incident during childhood. In other words, for some incompletes it requires a similar present-day interaction to trigger the memory of the first time it happened.
Re: "Is the value of clearing an incomplete in feeling satisfied with the communication of it?" If you're not experiencing satisfaction after a post then you have yet to get to the biggie(s), the stuff your mind has hidden from itself. My experience is that I'm relatively in-integrity and so I no longer get the emotional lift from clearing an emotionally charge incomplete. I do need to continually acknowledged myself as to just how well life is working. We say, not that it's true, but we say it comes from clearing, telling the truth, keeping agreements, and cleaning up the messes. When I and my clients and friends look out upon the world and see the struggles most have, the kaka in their lives and relationships, their health and their less-than-aliveness, it reminds us that communication works. We joke and say that life used to be great when we could lie and deceive and blame and dismiss thoughts of guilt.
Re: "Is it okay to keep posting clearings every day as long as I find it helpful?" Absolutely. However, you might fall into the trap of feeling you have to use The Clearing Process just to please me. Pitfall: There will come a time when you won't acknowledge to me that things have been working smoother since our relationship began, that you've been manifesting some nice intentions, even creating some miracles, and then things started to fall apart. Yikes, what happened I've been doing everything right? A part of this will have to do with the fact that you forgot to bring us/me along with you, in the form of acknowledgments/donations. Donating because I'm reminding you is very nice, however, donating because you truly want to empower me in serving others is mo betta. The Teacher's Pay Conversations Project addresses the correlation between acknowledgment and sustaining the experience of love, health, and prosperity. From my perspective, what's happening economically throughout the world is perfect. Teachers have yet to teach the subject of acknowledgment and so they still have to beg for raises from citizens (former students) because they didn't teach their students to bring them along financially. Citizens, at some level, feel ripped off because they were able to con their teachers into passing them and therefore know that teachers are getting the salaries they deserve. I suspect things will work even better for everyone when teachers earn as much as plumbers.
Re: "Is it okay to address these things to you here or better to post on the board?" Mo betta the board, because others get value from our interactions. You could register again with a different user name so that others won't easily identify your Message Board posts with your clearings. It is important to continue clearing as though you don't know it's me "getting" them. My agreement is to not talk about stuff you clear in any other posting, so if you clear that you murdered someone don't expect me to know it or address it in a message. With aloha,
Kerry
On 9/1/2011 6:50 AM, PathofLove wrote:
Kerry,
>
Thank you for your response. It feels good to get a response. I have some thoughts and questions.
>
1. I acknowledge that I feel pressure to remember firsts. I feel like i can't know if a memory was a first or not. With a lot of my really early perpetrations, i don't feel badly about them, or i don't remember feeling badly about them. I don't feel the same kind of release when I write about them as I do when I share acknowledgmentonally charged or that I do acknowledgment. Which comes to my second acknowledgement:
>
2. I acknowledge I feel pressure from you to do the clearings in a certain way. I feel pressure to follow someone else's example that may or may not feel natural to me. I feel like you saying I am not getting enough value from my clearings because I am not doing them a certain way. I feel the most release from the incompletes that feel the most charged and that bother me the most, which are usually more recent. To me something isn't cleared if I don't feel any different afterward. Is the value of clearing an incomplete in feeling satisfied with the communication of it?
>
3. Is it okay to keep posting clearings every day as long as I find it PathofLoves it okay to address these things toPathPathofLoveere or better to post on the board?
>
Cheers,
PathofLovei
>
> On Thu, Sep 1, 2011 at 6:07 AM, Kerry <admin@comcom121.org> wrote:
>
Hi PathofLove,
>
That feels good.
>
You have a good start with your clearings. Re-read the instructions and sample clearing, the most value comes from recalling & communicating/sharing your firsts. I find that reading yours and others clearings trigger memories of incompletes I had 'forgotten."
>
Kerry>
>
> On 8/31/2011 6:28 PM, PathofLove wrote:
Kerry,
>>
Thank you for your response.
>>
[sentence deleted per POL's request]
[sentence deleted per POL's request]
>>
PathofLove
>>
>>
>>
On Tue, Aug 30, 2011 at 5:01 PM, Kerry <admin@comcom121.org> wrote:
>>
Hi PathofLove,
>>
Re: "Does a cord plugged into the wall represent actual integrity as to virtual integrity?" Nah, that point of view invalidates intention. It has to do with responsibility, integrity, and intention. Bottom line: It would be irresponsible of me to trust that you could manifest such a call without me having an experience of your integrity. More accurately: It would be irresponsible of me to trust that we could manifest such a call without me having an experience of your integrity. Notice that you went unconscious when you (per the instructions) read on http://www.comcom121.org/consult.htm " You must call from a corded (land-line) phone. If you are doing the consult with another you must have two corded phone instruments (cordless and cell phones are not allowed due to signal problems or possible battery failure)." —this suggests unconsciousness or even sneakiness, both indicators of integrity issues.>>
Cell phone/iPhone battery/signal-strength have a way of going wonky when one is close to telling the truth as to the source of his/her less-than-desirable results, it's an amazing phenomenon. It's just smart to eliminate as many variables (solar flares/electrical storms, etc.) as possible. The mind is incredibly powerful at protecting its point of view, its version of life's incompletes. Life and things work much better when the integrity between two is in. When something doesn't turn out as envisioned I always have to look and see if/where my integrity is out; it's too easy to blame the other, sooo, I do what works quite reliably (land-lines).>>
There's even a possibility of something breaking down if you were to say, call from a friend's house. For example: It doesn't work to lend a car to someone who doesn't have one (for dozens of reasons and one truth), because such a borrower usually isn't operating at the level of integrity it takes to handle an accident responsibly (zero inconvenience to the lender, arrange for the rental, ensure perfect body work—so as to not detract from the car's value when sold—and, paying the car owner's increased insurance premium for life). To lend a car could be an unconscious intention to set up a friend to possibly fail even more in life.>>
Please register (it's free) and log on to the Message Board for future exchanges, however, to do so, please do the two prerequisites first, The Clearing Process and the definition of responsibility.
>>
I've enjoyed our coms. Thank you.
>>
With aloha,
>>
Kerry>>
>>
On 8/30/2011 3:51 AM, PathofLove wrote:
[sentence deleted per POL's request] >>>
[sentence deleted per POL's request]
>>>
Thanks,
PathofLove
>>>
On Aug 30, 2011, at 5:47 AM, Kerry <admin@comcom121.org> wrote:
>>>
Hi PathofLove,
>>>>
You're most welcome. I've been writing for years . . . .
>>>>
It's possible you haven't come across my favorites http://www.bigislandforum.org/forums/index.php — Potential Rumors and Community Blog. The whole forum is actually my blog, I use it to clear my mind.
>>>>
This has been my/our first full year (since our beginning in 1989) of not charging for our services, and relying on donations; as such, I'm still experimenting with how to present the free consultations, both person-to-person and via telephone. What's happened so far is I've spent a lot of time during a consult covering stuff that can easily be covered by the participant before the consult, stuff that needs to be addressed for communication to take place, so, after you submitted your request I've edited the http://www.comcom121.org/coapptf.htm. The added prerequisites serve as a qualifying interview so to speak, they assure me of a participant's intention to have a consult work. The definition of responsibility ensures that we are operating from the same definition during the consult (this creates a context for zero arguments). The Clearing Process empties the mind of many of life's incompletes—incompletes serve as barriers to communication between us. The difference in the quality of content during a consultation is quite noticeable with someone who has acknowledged life's perpetrations.
>>>>
To optimize our consult please follow the six steps and then resubmit your consult request and I'll email you my phone number.
>>>>
With aloha,
>>>>
Kerry
P.S. It appears that you made your appointment request via a cell phone (I could be wrong). In any case, a reminder, a consult must be done via a corded land-line phone.>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
On 8/29/2011 5:37 PM, PathofLove wrote:
Kerry,
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[sentence deleted per POL's request]
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[sentence deleted per POL's request]
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[sentence deleted per POL's request] >>>>>
Thanks,
PathofLove
>>>>>
On Aug 29, 2011, at 11:26 PM, Kerry <admin@comcom121.org> wrote:
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Hi PathofLove,
>>>>>>
Thank you for submitting your telephone consultation appointment request form.
>>>>>>
Where do you live?
>>>>>>
Have we interacted before, if yes, what name have you used or what name would I know you by?
>>>>>>
With aloha,
>>>>>>
Kerry>>>>>>
>>>>>>
On 8/29/2011 12:48 PM, PathofLove wrote:
The following data was entered in the http://www.comcom121.org/coapptf.htmform .
>>>>>>>
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>
>
Hi Kerry, I registered . . . so that I could continue communicating with you on the board, but you have not approved it yet. I don't want to wait any longer to respond to you, so I am continuing this communication now, to be transferred to the board if you see fit.
Thanks for the validation, encouragement and suggestions about clearing. You're welcome.
Re: "A lie is just a lie, it's a result produced." "It's possible to keep recalling a perpetration that you've ack'd because there's something else about it that is complete..." Yes! I found this very helpful, and it brought a lot a light to my process of breaking down where the incomplete is. It's almost never in the actual perpetration. This has allowed me to see myself in a new way, retroactively. I think it's called "remembering correctly." That's great. For example, whenever someone breaks an agreement with you they are setting it up to get caught for the broken agreement and hopefully, (if you're sharp enough), to get acknowledged for an earlier and similar perpetration.
Re: donating
Hmm. This is a tough one for me to communicate. There is a lot of work I want to do here--clearing, consultation, and the Abuse, Health, and Ideal Partner tutorials. I am excited about the truth I am finding on your website and in our communications, and I am excited about it being free. I don't know how you do it or why, but this "free"-dom has allowed me to experience something and say "yes" to something that I would have found barriers to had you been charging for it. There would have come the argument, "Is it worth this much money? Can I afford it?" When money is taken out of the equation, it gives me a chance to experience the value of the service without persuasion or coercion. And for me, it removes the entitlement, expectation, and obligation between the provider and the receiver. I have experienced before in expensive groups what I recognize now as an unconscious laziness in terms of my own work: "I have paid all this money, now what are you going to do for me?" Here, I am experiencing a blooming of my own initiative and motivation, and I truly thank you for letting me have this authority and responsibility. I thank you for choosing to offer this opportunity, and I thank the forces that have allowed you to do so. You're welcome.
I don't feel feel like donating right now. I want that to be clear. I want to donate when it feels right to, not because you remind me. I recognize that everyone has their tipping point, where free was okay, but now free is not okay, both on the giving end, and on the receiving end. i haven't reached my tipping point yet. All after, "I don't feel . . . now." was mind stuff, reasons your mind manufactured so as to not have to surrender to my support. I want to make it clear that your explanations have nothing to do with the truth. Your considerations are perfectly understandable; me, I couldn't/wouldn't give chocolates or flowers or whatever, because every other dude in the country was doing the same thing. I wanted to do it without being prompted. It was embarrassing to have to be reminded to acknowledge a loved one. I kept waiting for my natural acknowledgmentness to kick in; it never did. The more you resist donating the more it consumes you, the more you become your position. It remains in the space between us. There's a communication model in which you set it up for me to say something, to make a suggestion, given that point of view we must ask what the genius in you is up to that you would decline my support. It could be said that you unconsciously set it up for me to remind you to donate, because you had yet to realize what a truly remarkable opportunity this is for you. What you can't see is that by supporting me/us you empower me in my relationship with you, in supporting you in manifesting your stated intentions. Two barriers to manifesting ones stated intentions come to mind: A resistance to acknowledging others, and to being supportable. I'm want to say, one way to complete this is to make a donation larger than you feel comfortable with, generosity to the max and watch what happens.
It would be nice to know if there is an opportunity to acknowledge with in-kind donations. I like it when organizations have a "wish list" of services or products needed to run the place. It gives a different experience to acknowledge (and be acknowledged) with something other than money, and sometimes goods and services are available when cash isn't. More of the same mind stuff. I can see my invitation to donate pushed your button. Not to worry; if this issue is, as I suspect, the source of certain problems then we've done good work. Who else in your life would say they don't feel good because you never or seldom thought to buy them flowers?Cheers,
(as PathofLove)
On Thu, Sep 1, 2011 at 6:12 PM, Kerry <admin@comcom121.org> wrote:
Hi PathofLove,
You're welcome.
Re: " I acknowledge that I feel pressure to remember firsts." Got it. For me it's similar to meditating, I go unconscious and find myself thinking thoughts, I then make myself wrong and get back on track keeping in mind to breath. With clearing it works whether you know or think it's working providing you're willing to communicate openly, honestly, and spontaneously. Eventual the stuff that's covered up by other thoughts will pop to the surface. Aim for first lie, theft, temper-tantrum, deceit, abuse, etc. and take what comes up.
Re: ". . . i don't feel badly about them" That's the objective. If you had been communicated with after telling your first lie, you would have been coached by a parent lovingly and then it would be complete. A lie is just a lie, it's a result produced. I had bacon and eggs for my sixth birthday and then I stole money from my dad's pocket. Neither result is bad nor should I feel badly. Both results are complete except for the memory but without the charge. You were supposed to have committed all the childhood perps you did so as to arrive at choice. If you make yourself wrong then you have to set up life to do it again and again, until you get that it was just a result, it's just what's so, so what! It was in fact necessary to your growth, to getting here. It's possible to keep recalling a perpetration that you've ack'd because there's something else about it that is complete, say, I forgot to ack my mom for the nice b-day breakfast, or that I gave the money I stole to a friend and have yet to be ack'd for being a generous thief.
Re: "I acknowledge I feel pressure from you to do the clearings in a certain way. I feel pressure to follow someone else's example that may or may not feel natural to me." Got it. Follow the format until you know that you're not hiding anything from anyone. I'll be able to tell from a clearing if you're operating in the here and now, in present time. As long as your intention is to empty your mind, the biggies, if there are any left, will pop to the surface. Quite often they come up during the day when say, I find myself being rude or short. Later when clearing (I've been clearing with one client 3-hrs-per-session every other week for 17 years) I'll remember that the incident was associated with an incident during childhood. In other words, for some incompletes it requires a similar present-day interaction to trigger the memory of the first time it happened.
Re: "Is the value of clearing an incomplete in feeling satisfied with the communication of it?" If you're not experiencing satisfaction after a post then you have yet to get to the biggie(s), the stuff your mind has hidden from itself. My experience is that I'm relatively in-integrity and so I no longer get the emotional lift from clearing an emotionally charge incomplete. I do need to continually acknowledged myself as to just how well life is working. We say, not that it's true, but we say it comes from clearing, telling the truth, keeping agreements, and cleaning up the messes. When I and my clients and friends look out upon the world and see the struggles most have, the kaka in their lives and relationships, their health and their less-than-aliveness, it reminds us that communication works. We joke and say that life used to be great when we could lie and deceive and blame and dismiss thoughts of guilt.
Re: "Is it okay to keep posting clearings every day as long as I find it helpful?" Absolutely. However, you might fall into the trap of feeling you have to use The Clearing Process just to please me. Pitfall: There will come a time when you won't acknowledge to me that things have been working smoother since our relationship began, that you've been manifesting some nice intentions, even creating some miracles, and then things started to fall apart. Yikes, what happened I've been doing everything right? A part of this will have to do with the fact that you forgot to bring us/me along with you, in the form of acknowledgments/donations. Donating because I'm reminding you is very nice, however, donating because you truly want to empower me in serving others is mo betta. The Teacher's Pay Conversations Project addresses the correlation between acknowledgment and sustaining the experience of love, health, and prosperity. From my perspective, what's happening economically throughout the world is perfect. Teachers have yet to teach the subject of acknowledgment and so they still have to beg for raises from citizens (former students) because they didn't teach their students to bring them along financially. Citizens, at some level, feel ripped off because they were able to con their teachers into passing them and therefore know that teachers are getting the salaries they deserve. I suspect things will work even better for everyone when teachers earn as much as plumbers.
Re: "Is it okay to address these things to you here or better to post on the board?" Mo betta the board, because others get value from our interactions. You could register again with a different user name so that others won't easily identify your Message Board posts with your clearings. It is important to continue clearing as though you don't know it's me "getting" them. My agreement is to not talk about stuff you clear in any other posting, so if you clear that you murdered someone don't expect me to know it or address it in a message. With aloha,
Kerry
On 9/1/2011 6:50 AM, PathofLove wrote:
Kerry,
>
Thank you for your response. It feels good to get a response. I have some thoughts and questions.
>
1. I acknowledge that I feel pressure to remember firsts. I feel like i can't know if a memory was a first or not. With a lot of my really early perpetrations, i don't feel badly about them, or i don't remember feeling badly about them. I don't feel the same kind of release when I write about them as I do when I share acknowledgmentonally charged or that I do acknowledgment. Which comes to my second acknowledgement:
>
2. I acknowledge I feel pressure from you to do the clearings in a certain way. I feel pressure to follow someone else's example that may or may not feel natural to me. I feel like you saying I am not getting enough value from my clearings because I am not doing them a certain way. I feel the most release from the incompletes that feel the most charged and that bother me the most, which are usually more recent. To me something isn't cleared if I don't feel any different afterward. Is the value of clearing an incomplete in feeling satisfied with the communication of it?
>
3. Is it okay to keep posting clearings every day as long as I find it PathofLoves it okay to address these things toPathPathofLoveere or better to post on the board?
>
Cheers,
PathofLovei
>
> On Thu, Sep 1, 2011 at 6:07 AM, Kerry <admin@comcom121.org> wrote:
>
Hi PathofLove,
>
That feels good.
>
You have a good start with your clearings. Re-read the instructions and sample clearing, the most value comes from recalling & communicating/sharing your firsts. I find that reading yours and others clearings trigger memories of incompletes I had 'forgotten."
>
Kerry>
>
> On 8/31/2011 6:28 PM, PathofLove wrote:
Kerry,
>>
Thank you for your response.
>>
[sentence deleted per POL's request]
[sentence deleted per POL's request]
>>
PathofLove
>>
>>
>>
On Tue, Aug 30, 2011 at 5:01 PM, Kerry <admin@comcom121.org> wrote:
>>
Hi PathofLove,
>>
Re: "Does a cord plugged into the wall represent actual integrity as to virtual integrity?" Nah, that point of view invalidates intention. It has to do with responsibility, integrity, and intention. Bottom line: It would be irresponsible of me to trust that you could manifest such a call without me having an experience of your integrity. More accurately: It would be irresponsible of me to trust that we could manifest such a call without me having an experience of your integrity. Notice that you went unconscious when you (per the instructions) read on http://www.comcom121.org/consult.htm " You must call from a corded (land-line) phone. If you are doing the consult with another you must have two corded phone instruments (cordless and cell phones are not allowed due to signal problems or possible battery failure)." —this suggests unconsciousness or even sneakiness, both indicators of integrity issues.>>
Cell phone/iPhone battery/signal-strength have a way of going wonky when one is close to telling the truth as to the source of his/her less-than-desirable results, it's an amazing phenomenon. It's just smart to eliminate as many variables (solar flares/electrical storms, etc.) as possible. The mind is incredibly powerful at protecting its point of view, its version of life's incompletes. Life and things work much better when the integrity between two is in. When something doesn't turn out as envisioned I always have to look and see if/where my integrity is out; it's too easy to blame the other, sooo, I do what works quite reliably (land-lines).>>
There's even a possibility of something breaking down if you were to say, call from a friend's house. For example: It doesn't work to lend a car to someone who doesn't have one (for dozens of reasons and one truth), because such a borrower usually isn't operating at the level of integrity it takes to handle an accident responsibly (zero inconvenience to the lender, arrange for the rental, ensure perfect body work—so as to not detract from the car's value when sold—and, paying the car owner's increased insurance premium for life). To lend a car could be an unconscious intention to set up a friend to possibly fail even more in life.>>
Please register (it's free) and log on to the Message Board for future exchanges, however, to do so, please do the two prerequisites first, The Clearing Process and the definition of responsibility.
>>
I've enjoyed our coms. Thank you.
>>
With aloha,
>>
Kerry>>
>>
On 8/30/2011 3:51 AM, PathofLove wrote:
[sentence deleted per POL's request] >>>
[sentence deleted per POL's request]
>>>
Thanks,
PathofLove
>>>
On Aug 30, 2011, at 5:47 AM, Kerry <admin@comcom121.org> wrote:
>>>
Hi PathofLove,
>>>>
You're most welcome. I've been writing for years . . . .
>>>>
It's possible you haven't come across my favorites http://www.bigislandforum.org/forums/index.php — Potential Rumors and Community Blog. The whole forum is actually my blog, I use it to clear my mind.
>>>>
This has been my/our first full year (since our beginning in 1989) of not charging for our services, and relying on donations; as such, I'm still experimenting with how to present the free consultations, both person-to-person and via telephone. What's happened so far is I've spent a lot of time during a consult covering stuff that can easily be covered by the participant before the consult, stuff that needs to be addressed for communication to take place, so, after you submitted your request I've edited the http://www.comcom121.org/coapptf.htm. The added prerequisites serve as a qualifying interview so to speak, they assure me of a participant's intention to have a consult work. The definition of responsibility ensures that we are operating from the same definition during the consult (this creates a context for zero arguments). The Clearing Process empties the mind of many of life's incompletes—incompletes serve as barriers to communication between us. The difference in the quality of content during a consultation is quite noticeable with someone who has acknowledged life's perpetrations.
>>>>
To optimize our consult please follow the six steps and then resubmit your consult request and I'll email you my phone number.
>>>>
With aloha,
>>>>
Kerry
P.S. It appears that you made your appointment request via a cell phone (I could be wrong). In any case, a reminder, a consult must be done via a corded land-line phone.>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
On 8/29/2011 5:37 PM, PathofLove wrote:
Kerry,
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Thanks,
PathofLove
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On Aug 29, 2011, at 11:26 PM, Kerry <admin@comcom121.org> wrote:
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Hi PathofLove,
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Thank you for submitting your telephone consultation appointment request form.
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Where do you live?
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Have we interacted before, if yes, what name have you used or what name would I know you by?
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With aloha,
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On 8/29/2011 12:48 PM, PathofLove wrote:
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