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Consultations (also referred to as a clearing or coaching)What's a communication consultation? What happens during a consultation? Why would I want to have a communication consultation? Types of consultations — Telephone & Face to face Close your browser's window to return to the page you came from What's a communication consultation?A consultation (also referred to as a consult, a clearing, or a coaching session) is a three-hour session with a communication skills consultant, a coach. It's similar in form to a session with a counselor or therapist; the difference being, its foundation is communication-education (coaching) as opposed to analysis or therapy. A consult is for individuals, couples, families or small groups (usually up to ten people). Larger groups and organizations are better served with longer sessions or a workshop so that everyone gets a chance to participate fully. Usually a consult participant brings a specific problem they want resolved. Sometimes couples or business partners want to improve their communication skills. Sometimes parents are having a specific discipline problem with a child. A communication consult is free of the implication that there is something mentally wrong with a person; it carries none of the stigma sometimes associated with therapy. With communication coaching you give another, the coach, permission to provide you with feedback about your communications. The coach guides you sentence by sentence through to mutual satisfaction with each sentence for a period of three-hours. The experience is unlike any other in life. When communication takes place there is the experience of being gotten and validated. Throughout the conversation the coach will offer insights, corrections, and feedback in support of accelerating the communication mastery process—open, honest, spontaneous, and mutually satisfying communications. Most people say it transforms their experience of communication. It can have a powerful and beneficial effect on your life and relationships. What happens in a consult?A consult is an opportunity to experience communication.
A consult participant grants permission to the coach to provide coaching. The premise is that the way an individual communicates creates specific types of problems and reactions from others. The coaching allows one to be conscious of unconscious errors and inaccuracies in ones communication model. That is to say, if the participant keeps communicating from the same ground of being, without coaching, they will continue creating the same kinds of problems. What happens when communication takes place is that there is an experience of satisfaction and completion. A consult is about communicating openly, honestly, and spontaneously. It's an opportunity to be coached. The facilitator puts in feedback and correction in support of everyone feeling good upon completion. Who uses a consultant?Anyone will get tremendous value from a consult.
Consult participants usually report that the three-hour session is extremely powerful. Most report that it transforms their experience of communication. Why would I want to have a communication consultation?Many people choose to do a consult simply because they know things can be so much better if they could just communicate
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One of the givens in the consulting profession is: The problem is never ever what the client thinks it is. The mind hides the source, the cause, of a problem from itself. What's a telephone consult?There are two types of consultations. Telephone Consultation: Mondays — Fridays 9 am - 12 noonA telephone consult is for people who live too far from Pahoa Hawaii for a personal consult to be practical. Or, when the expense for transportation and lodging to have the coach travel off-island is a bit much. Consults, either face-to-face or via telephone, are three-hours long. You may make a telephone consultation appointment for just yourself or with another. You must call from a corded (land-line) phone. If you are doing the consult with another you must have two corded phone instruments (cordless and cell phones are not allowed due to signal problems or possible battery failure). Each person must be sitting in a separate room not in view of each other. You may make arrangements for a conference call but it must be handled by you with the other person on the line when you dial the coach. You will originate the call to a 1-808 (Hawaii area code) number. The coach will send you the number by email once the date and time has been agreed upon. The call will be charged to your phone bill by your phone company or long distance provider as a typical long distance call. If your appointment is for yourself alone, you must ensure that others cannot overhear your conversation. This is very important. Do not attempt to do a consultation with a child or baby in the house except that someone else can ensure zero interruptions for you. American/British English must be your native tongue. Face-to-Face Consultation: Mondays - Fridays 9 am - 12 noon You may elect to make an appointment for a face-to-face consultation. A face-to-face consultation can take place on the Big Island of Hawaii or off-island. Typically, a face-to face consultation takes place at the coach's residence (Pahoa, Hawaii), or, (for a fee a local hotel). The hotel reservation is made by the participant. Big Island residents may request a consultation at a hotel on either side of the island (Hilo or Kona). Hotel and travel costs to Kona, and all off-island consultations, are paid for by the participant. feeHow much do consults cost?Consultations are free—donations accepted. Prerequistes: You must do five clearings, one per day for five days in a row (see The Clearing Process).
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