Community Communications

Hi Gregorys90, As the saying goes, “You can lead a horse…” There’s nothing more for me here except failure. I find it doesn’t work to interact with those addicted to abuse who continue to interact with abusive people. It's unethical to dump a problem one is unwilling to solve in a friend's space. On...

The rest of my reply to your 30 Jul 2011 06:37 am post. Hi gregorys90, Re: “This is his way of keeping contact with me . . .” Nope. Notice the unconscious blame? —how it leaks out without you even knowing it. It’s your way of keeping contact with him—you holding on to the shop apron strings. Re: “Re...

Hi gregorys90, Quick reply to "RE "Did I tell him" No, I have not told him verbally. I will." I don't recommend that you do it verbally, you'll only produce more of the same. You'll still be still using your adversarial communication model, ergo, accidentally, unconsciously, making him wrong. Best d...

Hi gregorys90,

I deleted your second personal communication to me in a clearing post. Please reread and follow the instructions and the sample clearing.

Thanks,

Kerry

Hi gregorys90 , Re: “It has come to the point were your comments have come to fruition.” I don’t know what comments you are referring to, and, thank you for the nice acknowledgment. Re: “As an incoming freshman he wouldn't commit to my education . . .” This is referred to as a blame statement. As op...

Hi gregorys90, Thanks, now I remember you. I enjoyed our conversations. How very nice to hear from you. I'm so very pleased that you have been taking advantage of The Clearing Process . Five clearings (1 per day for five days in a row) is an excellent start. Continued clearings will support you in b...

Rec'd the following para at the bottom of a clearing. It has been moved here from The Clearing Process by Kerry. (policy = no personal/private communications when clearing). The para has been deleted from the clearing post by Kerry. Hi Kerry: Yes, I was from Pahoa we met 2 or 3 times there. The last...

Hi gregorys90, Re: Hi Kerry, I was expecting a response from you. Is this not the place to ask questions like this? Much Aloha I too was waiting for a reply, but from you, to my reply to your Test post . Did you receive email notification of my reply to your "Test post"? (select "Notify me when a re...

Hi gregorys90,

I got it.

Thank you,

Kerry

Hi gregorys90, I'm not recalling you, another name perhaps? "Natch" as in Island Naturals? I'm not recalling a green bench. What Island? What year? In any case— Hi, and thanks for touching base. The test posts you see are for tutorial participants so that they can then select their tutorial's forum ...

Hi Zahra,

Absolutely one of the best test posts ever. PW is being emailed to you.

Kerry

Hi Mona,

Congrats on a perfect registration.

Check your email for the URL to the start of the tut, the usernames, and passwords.

Kerry

Here's my reply to your above post. Kerry Hi Ladychap, I've deleted your post requesting the next part. Somewhere the instructions should read, ". . . please don't post again until I've replied." We'll both know when we're ready for the next part. It takes intention to recreate (get) the tut’s defin...

Hi Ladychap, Due to the problems we've been having with the Teacher's Message Board, I've moved your first post and my reply back here. Kerry Hi Kerry, I agree that responsibility begins with willingness. However, I don't agree that when all of the blame turns to you and others aren't held responsil...

Hi Ladychap,

I've moved your posts to the Teacher's Communication-Skills Tutorial Message Board,

Kerry