About Tutorial pg. 1
No branch of the military clear (debrief) an active duty service member before releasing him/her back into society. VA staff don't offer clearings to vets, in part because clearing skills (creating space for getting, and re-creating, another's communications) are not included in any high school, university, college or military academy speech-communication-leadership curriculum.
The vast majority of people carry around thousands of incompletes —for life. These earlier less-than-mutually-satisfying outcomes are the cause for all present-day breakdowns in communication. Incompletes serve as barriers to the experience of communication, of love, of being-here-now (in present-time), and to consistently manifesting one's stated intentions.
Vets, with their exposures to many unique conflicting experiences having to do with responsibility, ethics and morality, have even more to acknowledge and process before they are whole and complete, in integrity.
Some emotionally bound up vets walk around communicating non-verbally, "Can't you see I don't have anyone sharp enough to call me on my controlling attention-getting drama?" or, "I'd rather not talk about it, you can't possibly understand." or, "I'm too humble to talk about it." or even, "See everything I own in my shopping cart; look what you did to me!"
Use the Comments form to share the specific sentence above that you agree/disagree with—don't worry about speling. It's Ok to use an alias name, no email address required. Sharing one or two thoughts will complete the experience for you. Thank you. —Kerry
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