Teen Dating Tip: Teen, the way to cause a date to deceive (abuse) you on your very first date is to deceive (abuse) a parent and not "clean" it up before the date.* Your pattern of deceit has already become an addiction, and, it's not your fault. Children have no choice other than to mirror the integrity of their parents, teachers, friends and clergy. With 44+ years of coaching divorced partners I've yet to find anyone that did not begin the deceit on their very first date. All are able to recall the very first significant withhold. Most parents are unaware that they are teaching their child to deceive them, evidence by the fact that most teens con each other into deceiving both set of parents when it comes to teen sex. Virtually all parents are deceiving each other, both are withholding one or more significant thoughts from each other (no exceptions). Few parents share their teen sex history with their teen. Teens bring their addictions to deceit, blaming, and withholding significant thoughts from parents into each new relationship--for life.
Here's a "Fork in the Road." Parent, to restore and maintain your integrity do the free Clearing Process for a Parent and a Young Person < https://www.comcom121.org/clearing/child.htm >.
* Verbally acknowledging a perpetration/deceit (responsibly, from cause) disappears its negative karma. <Withholds: < https://www.bigislandforum.org/reunion/defs.htm >.