The Clearing
Process Confidential Mail Form
If you'd like to
get something extremely personal off of your mind this is
the place. It's similar to what Catholics call confession.
Communication consultants call it clearing or emptying the
mind. It works. No advice is given and anonymity is assured.
Use this
Confidential Mail Form to clear your mind or to send us a
confidential message: It
will not be posted for others to read.
If you
wish to share thoughts that are possibly legally
incriminating, a felony, rape, murder, etc. —bookmark this
page, close your browser software, reopen open it, and log
on to Anonymizer.com and
then come back to this page.
It's not
necessary to concern yourself with spelling, or punctuation,
spontaneity is more important.
Begin
your message with a code such as ZXCV. Then when you look in
the Confidential
Mail Entries you'll
be able to identify that we got your message.
Include your
email address in the message only if
you wish a personal reply.
What
happens once I send my message?
We get your
communication. To "get" means: We intend that you intend to
be complete about it. We add nothing, especially no
judgments. We post a coded message on the Entries
File so
that you will know we received it.
For example: "Dear
ZXCV: We got your 10/30/03 communication. Thank you."
Although the process seems simple, it's truly very powerful.
During our Advanced
Communication Workshop we
do several communication processes that allow people to
remember and communicate childhood incompletes. Stealing,
lying, cheating, drug stuff, inappropriate sexual activities
or thoughts, abusiveness, unfaithfulness, even murder are
some of the memories. Yes, you read correctly, murder.
Workshops are magical in that they are a safe space to tell
the truth.
Here's a sample of a clearing that
will give you a place to start from, an example of a mind
intent on acknowledging anything that pops up, when it asks
itself, "What are you hiding?" or, "What are you afraid to
communicate to who?"
Here are some other examples that
will help you look for incompletes. These things, held on
to, kept to oneself without sharing them, weigh more heavily
on your mind that you can possibly imagine. The incompletes
occupy space and get in the way of you creating new things
you say you want. Once communicated, which is different than
told, or said, or talked about. Once communicated the charge
that's attached to them lifts and creates space for the
experience of communication to take place.
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