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About the Tutorial (pg. 6 of 18)

Two paragraphs: The Tutorial Coach strongly recommends that you estrange yourself from any abusive relationship, however, if you believe you have no choice but to continue interacting with someone equally addicted to abuse then have them communicate to you verbally, and in writing their commitment to healing. It's extremely important that it be in writing. If they refuse to agree to the two example paragraphs you'll know that they have not formulated the intention to complete their experience of abuse. To heal one must surrender control.

If, after reading this page, you refuse to insist that they agree to the two paragraphs, and you continue to hang around them socially, if you continue to interact with them (to even be in communication with him/her), reveals your addiction to abuse and your intention to keep them stuck—no matter what you say or believe. Your belief, that you love him/her, that all they need is love, is just that, a belief. Love simply doesn't cause abuse.

Press Continue button and read the two paragraphs. You are not yet agreeing to do the tutorial.

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Estrangement is preferred because it supports you in acknowledging that how you communicate triggers his/her abuse—that they have no choice but react to your (mostly unconscious) machinations.
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