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About the Tutorial (pg. 5 of 18)It is abusive and unethical to use someone who is stuck in verbal or physical abuse for your own survival or personal gratification. An abusive person is still stuck in childhood. When a child is stuck in a pattern of temper-tantrums it's the parents, the adults around him/her, training and rewarding the behavior, that keep the child stuck. If you know your partner is stuck in childhood, dramatizing anger as children do, using anger to get his/her way, to control others, and you are using him/her, for whatever reason, it is tantamount to child abuse. It's not unlike dating a child of 12. In other words, an abusive person has no choice but to mirror the abuse, the sickness, of those around him/her. Your partner is mirroring your sickness. "Stuck" here means; someone to whom you have not verbally communicated the following two paragraphs. Press Continue button and read the two paragraphs. You are not yet agreeing to do the tutorial. |
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