Thoughts occupy what's commonly referred to as space. That is to
say, if you are a salesperson and you are about to make the most
important presentation of your life, your mind would be loaded with all
sorts of thoughts. Many of these thoughts are essential to the sales
process. I.e. Order of presentation, product data, don't chew gum, don't
badmouth the opposition, etc.
Other thoughts are detrimental to the sales process. I.e. "Boy, I'd sure
hate to work for this guy." "What a jerk!" Sometimes it seems as though it's not
appropriate to tell the truth. "Boy, his breath stinks." At other times
the unwanted thoughts cloud the mind, getting in the way of spontaneity
and clarity.
One disadvantage of withholding thoughts and perpetrations is that a
person who is in-integrity (all perpetrations acknowledged, who has zero
significant withholds) can experience another's withholds; they may not
know exactly what is being withheld, sometimes it can be misinterpreted
as deceit. That is to say, life's deceits and verbal abuses affect a person's
face. It often communicates untrustworthiness or flakiness. A parent
addicted to unconscious lying, who says to their child, "I'll be with
you in a minute" and doesn't keep their word, or who says "No candy" and
later acquiesces to the badgering, comes across as a person who is
unconscious, not awake, not homeand the biggie, "typical" as in a typical (can be connned) teacher .
One way to create space for communication to take place is to empty the mind
using
The
[free] Clearing
Process. It's free and it can alter ones physiology from within. Done with
intention it can restore one's innocence.