- All divorced couples brought their addictions to withholding and blaming into the relationship; they magnetically, unconsciously, attracted someone with the exact same addictions—to deceiving, to blaming, to withholding certain thoughts.
* "significant" meaning, a thought you choose to withhold because you know it would cause an upset, or anger, or worse. Fleeting insignificant, non-reoccurring, thoughts are not withholds. What's not commonly known is that withholds are always being communicated non-verbally. I.e. Your partner doesn't know what you're withholding just that the love ain't what it could/should be (something's missing). Withholding a thought from your partner causes him/her to be incomplete in their relationship with you—thereby abusively denying them the experience of joyous love and ecstasy.
Tips for failure:
- Marry a girl who has yet to hold down a job for 12 months.
Reward a girl who consciously chose to not study for a career during high school, who instead, opted to seduce a man to take care of her for life.
Give the keys to a car you worked and saved for to a girl who has no experience of its value, one who has never detailed a car, one who could not, or would not, reimburse you for all accident costs.
Marry a girl who trash talks her old boyfriends.
Marry a girl whose parents don't insist that you meet them first.
Date a girl whose parents trained her to deceive them so that your parents will have to spend holidays with unethical withholders.