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participants. Each letter is a addressed to a specific person and so the reply communicates mostly to that person; feedback from guests tells us that others get value from reading them.
I can get upset, and angry, and abusive, but to answer your question, I don't think of you as a "sorry" person no matter "what" others may say.
In other words, I'm not getting the specifics of your cryptic comments in this and your other identical post. It doesn't feel good. It comes across as a covert irresponsible make-wrong; in communication jargon we refer to such quips as dumps (as in, dumping thoughts in another's space without an intention for it to feel good for the recipient). Self-righteous, smart-ass, abusive, addicted to making others wrong so as to be right, are some thoughts that come to mind.
Before you post again, please do the The Clearing Process
, it's free and it works; it will create space for mo betta communication between us. Upon completion, I can give you some suggestions about how to disagree accurately and have it feel good.