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by Gabby
Thu May 31, 2018 10:24 am
Forum: Ask Gabby your own question
Topic: how am I supposed to live without my brother?
Replies: 11
Views: 55143

Re: how am I supposed to live without my brother?

Hi Evachalbi, Thank you for writing. Your letter speaks to millions with the same problem. I get your grief, sadness and upset. Communication works (which is entirely different than talking). For example, did you notice that you felt somewhat different after posting your question? If yes, then you c...
by Gabby
Tue May 22, 2018 4:32 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: Conversations to have with your parents
Replies: 0
Views: 8991

Conversations to have with your parents

Facts: The majority of today's parents are withholding one or more significant thoughts from each other. 1 The majority of today's parents are teaching their child to deceive them and others. 2 All divorced couples withheld significant thoughts from each other on their first date. 3 The majority of...
by Gabby
Sun Apr 15, 2018 4:50 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: Predetermined karma?
Replies: 0
Views: 8335

Predetermined karma?

Premises : 1) All lies and all truths have an effect. For example: If, when you were ten-years-old, your mother asked if you had brushed your teeth and if you lied, and you have never verbally 1 acknowledged that specific lie to your mother, then that 2 lie is still affecting outcomes to this very ...
by Gabby
Wed Mar 28, 2018 1:03 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: Birds 'n Bees 2.0
Replies: 0
Views: 10628

Birds 'n Bees 2.0

The obligatory "Birds and Bees Talk" usually triggers uncomfortableness and embarrassment for parents and their prepubescent 1 child —this because most parents are unaware that they are uncomfortable talking about sex and so they don't verbally acknowledge to each other, and to their child , their ...
by Gabby
Sat Feb 03, 2018 3:48 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: Sex tips for teenage girls
Replies: 0
Views: 9053

Sex tips for teenage girls

Here's what to look for if you want to have sex : 1) Look for a boy who trash-talks his teachers and parents or blames them for the rules and curfews. For example: "My stupid parents want me home by 11 pm" —an irresponsible blaming badmouthing communication. In other words, if you are aware of a pe...
by Gabby
Fri Nov 10, 2017 12:59 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: About the four kinds of child abuse
Replies: 0
Views: 8469

About the four kinds of child abuse

Child abuse is delivered four different ways; verbal 1 , non-verbal 2 , physical 3 , and psychic 4 . The effects of all child abuse can be mitigated or disappeared through communication, either a written or a verbal acknowledgment ( communication is entirely different than talking ). If an abusive c...
by Gabby
Wed Nov 01, 2017 1:36 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: About infidelity
Replies: 0
Views: 8189

About infidelity

A caught cheater knows they have (premeditatively, disrespectfully) abused their partner and so they usually act or actually feel guilty/badly; they recite apologies and look appropriately contrite. Most then beg forgiveness and ask for another chance. Few ever use the incident to recall, and verbal...
by Gabby
Mon Oct 16, 2017 5:28 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: Sex tips for teenage boys
Replies: 0
Views: 8309

Sex tips for teenage boys

Sex tips for teenage boys Here's what to look for if you want to have sex : 1) Look for a girl who trash-talks her parents or blames them for the rules and curfews (I.e. "My stupid parents want me home by 11 pm." —an irresponsible blaming badmouthing communication). In other words, if you are aware ...
by Gabby
Tue Aug 01, 2017 2:08 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: Would you hire you?
Replies: 0
Views: 8646

Would you hire you?

Would you hire you? Do you have thoughts you withhold from your supervisor(s) and the boss? Are you open and honest in your personal relationship, zero significant withholds . Have you experienced that your personal integrity affects all outcomes including the goals of your organization? Have you tr...
by Gabby
Tue Jul 18, 2017 4:11 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: Two-Minute Relationship Longevity Test
Replies: 0
Views: 7987

Two-Minute Relationship Longevity Test

Here's an excellent, extremely accurate, test to see where your relationship is, or is heading, its potential. Is it still growing—still expanding or have you become stuck talking with your partner rather than experiencing the supportive love that's automatically generated via communication ? If the...
by Gabby
Sat Jul 15, 2017 11:08 am
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: Joyous love? Recently?
Replies: 0
Views: 7993

Joyous love? Recently?

When was the last time you experienced joyous love with your partner? Perhaps you know you love your partner but it has been quite a while since you've experienced the unmistakable experience of joy, respect, appreciation, of teary-eyed ecstasy; if so, all it takes is a single sit-down communication...
by Gabby
Sat Jun 10, 2017 3:50 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: Are you nurturing seeds for Columbines and terrorism?
Replies: 0
Views: 7897

Are you nurturing seeds for Columbines and terrorism?

This tip is primarily for teens. This subject adds to your high school speech-communication curriculum—a direct experience of personal responsibility. Specifically, it's about your non-verbal communications and the effects they have on your class-mates/friends. It's one of those learning experience...
by Gabby
Wed Apr 19, 2017 4:19 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: Weapons training—starting from mastery
Replies: 0
Views: 8837

Weapons training—starting from mastery

Weapons training—starting from mastery Most people who have fired a weapon did not hit the bulls-eye the first time. For most, shooting or hunting never became a sport or an activity for self-improvement, self-defense, meditation, or mastery—in part, because they discovered that hitting the bulls-e...
by Gabby
Sun Apr 09, 2017 12:25 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: Time-out activity for a child having an upset.
Replies: 0
Views: 8258

Time-out activity for a child having an upset.

Here's an excellent tip for a parent : Many parents and teachers use "time-outs" when a child is dramatizing an upset. * For example : "Go to your room. Come out when you can tell me ... (insert your criteria)." i.e. "How you started the argument." or, "What you did to cause me to send you to your ...
by Gabby
Tue Feb 14, 2017 2:40 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: Child (fetal) abuse during pregnancy
Replies: 0
Views: 8450

Child (fetal) abuse during pregnancy

The sounds, the vibrations, the non-verbal emanations, between parents, either feel good (normal) to the fetus or there is something unsettling, confusing, fearful, or incomplete about the experience, about the communications taking place . For a child to be born whole and complete he/she must comp...