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- Thu May 31, 2018 10:24 am
- Forum: Ask Gabby your own question
- Topic: how am I supposed to live without my brother?
- Replies: 11
- Views: 64188
Re: how am I supposed to live without my brother?
Hi Evachalbi, Thank you for writing. Your letter speaks to millions with the same problem. I get your grief, sadness and upset. Communication works (which is entirely different than talking). For example, did you notice that you felt somewhat different after posting your question? If yes, then you c...
- Tue May 22, 2018 4:32 pm
- Forum: Gabby's Tips
- Topic: Conversations to have with your parents
- Replies: 0
- Views: 9311
Conversations to have with your parents
Facts: The majority of today's parents are withholding one or more significant thoughts from each other. 1 The majority of today's parents are teaching their child to deceive them and others. 2 All divorced couples withheld significant thoughts from each other on their first date. 3 The majority of...
- Sun Apr 15, 2018 4:50 pm
- Forum: Gabby's Tips
- Topic: Predetermined karma?
- Replies: 0
- Views: 8679
Predetermined karma?
Premises : 1) All lies and all truths have an effect. For example: If, when you were ten-years-old, your mother asked if you had brushed your teeth and if you lied, and you have never verbally 1 acknowledged that specific lie to your mother, then that 2 lie is still affecting outcomes to this very ...
- Wed Mar 28, 2018 1:03 pm
- Forum: Gabby's Tips
- Topic: Birds 'n Bees 2.0
- Replies: 0
- Views: 11005
Birds 'n Bees 2.0
The obligatory "Birds and Bees Talk" usually triggers uncomfortableness and embarrassment for parents and their prepubescent 1 child —this because most parents are unaware that they are uncomfortable talking about sex and so they don't verbally acknowledge to each other, and to their child , their ...
- Sat Feb 03, 2018 3:48 pm
- Forum: Gabby's Tips
- Topic: Sex tips for teenage girls
- Replies: 0
- Views: 9502
Sex tips for teenage girls
Here's what to look for if you want to have sex : 1) Look for a boy who trash-talks his teachers and parents or blames them for the rules and curfews. For example: "My stupid parents want me home by 11 pm" —an irresponsible blaming badmouthing communication. In other words, if you are aware of a pe...
- Fri Nov 10, 2017 12:59 pm
- Forum: Gabby's Tips
- Topic: About the four kinds of child abuse
- Replies: 0
- Views: 9064
About the four kinds of child abuse
Child abuse is delivered four different ways; verbal 1 , non-verbal 2 , physical 3 , and psychic 4 . The effects of all child abuse can be mitigated or disappeared through communication, either a written or a verbal acknowledgment ( communication is entirely different than talking ). If an abusive c...
- Wed Nov 01, 2017 1:36 pm
- Forum: Gabby's Tips
- Topic: About infidelity
- Replies: 0
- Views: 8706
About infidelity
A caught cheater knows they have (premeditatively, disrespectfully) abused their partner and so they usually act or actually feel guilty/badly; they recite apologies and look appropriately contrite. Most then beg forgiveness and ask for another chance. Few ever use the incident to recall, and verbal...
- Mon Oct 16, 2017 5:28 pm
- Forum: Gabby's Tips
- Topic: Sex tips for teenage boys
- Replies: 0
- Views: 8849
Sex tips for teenage boys
Sex tips for teenage boys Here's what to look for if you want to have sex : 1) Look for a girl who trash-talks her parents or blames them for the rules and curfews (I.e. "My stupid parents want me home by 11 pm." —an irresponsible blaming badmouthing communication). In other words, if you are aware...
- Tue Aug 01, 2017 2:08 pm
- Forum: Gabby's Tips
- Topic: Would you hire you?
- Replies: 0
- Views: 9243
Would you hire you?
Would you hire you? Do you have thoughts you withhold from your supervisor(s) and the boss? Are you open and honest in your personal relationship, zero significant withholds . Have you experienced that your personal integrity affects all outcomes including the goals of your organization? Have you tr...
- Tue Jul 18, 2017 4:11 pm
- Forum: Gabby's Tips
- Topic: Two-Minute Relationship Longevity Test
- Replies: 0
- Views: 8484
Two-Minute Relationship Longevity Test
Here's an excellent, extremely accurate, test to see where your relationship is, or is heading, its potential. Is it still growing—still expanding or have you become stuck talking with your partner rather than experiencing the supportive love that's automatically generated via communication ? If the...
- Sat Jul 15, 2017 11:08 am
- Forum: Gabby's Tips
- Topic: Joyous love? Recently?
- Replies: 0
- Views: 8516
Joyous love? Recently?
When was the last time you experienced joyous love with your partner? Perhaps you know you love your partner but it has been quite a while since you've experienced the unmistakable experience of joy, respect, appreciation, of teary-eyed ecstasy; if so, all it takes is a single sit-down communication...
- Sat Jun 10, 2017 3:50 pm
- Forum: Gabby's Tips
- Topic: Are you nurturing seeds for Columbines and terrorism?
- Replies: 0
- Views: 8441
Are you nurturing seeds for Columbines and terrorism?
This tip is primarily for teens. This subject adds to your high school speech-communication curriculum—a direct experience of personal responsibility. Specifically, it's about your non-verbal communications and the effects they have on your class-mates/friends. It's one of those learning experience...
- Wed Apr 19, 2017 4:19 pm
- Forum: Gabby's Tips
- Topic: Weapons training—starting from mastery
- Replies: 0
- Views: 9390
Weapons training—starting from mastery
Weapons training—starting from mastery Most people who have fired a weapon did not hit the bulls-eye the first time. For most, shooting or hunting never became a sport or an activity for self-improvement, self-defense, meditation, or mastery—in part, because they discovered that hitting the bulls-e...
- Sun Apr 09, 2017 12:25 pm
- Forum: Gabby's Tips
- Topic: Time-out activity for a child having an upset.
- Replies: 0
- Views: 8805
Time-out activity for a child having an upset.
Here's an excellent tip for a parent : Many parents and teachers use "time-outs" when a child is dramatizing an upset. * For example : "Go to your room. Come out when you can tell me ... (insert your criteria)." i.e. "How you started the argument." or, "What you did to cause me to send you to your ...
- Tue Feb 14, 2017 2:40 pm
- Forum: Gabby's Tips
- Topic: Child (fetal) abuse during pregnancy
- Replies: 0
- Views: 9056
Child (fetal) abuse during pregnancy
The sounds, the vibrations, the non-verbal emanations, between parents, either feel good (normal) to the fetus or there is something unsettling, confusing, fearful, or incomplete about the experience, about the communications taking place . For a child to be born whole and complete he/she must comp...