Dear Gabby

— a.k.a. An introduction to fetal imprinting: "Imprinting occurs when the mother 1 unwittingly projects her unconscious 2 , unwanted, and unprocessed 3 negative 4 feelings 5 into her still-developing fetus." —Dr. Bernard Bail (psychoanalyst) Note : The following footnotes expand upon Dr. Bail's abo...

Thanksgiving—all day—everyday . The Thank You Process — a.k.a. An Acknowledgment Process —it works and it's free. So simple—so amazingly effective—immediate positive results . "results" meaning happiness, moving flowing emotions of appreciation, an experience of being. All communications/interactio...

Definition of affirmation : 1 : the act of affirming 2 : something affirmed 3 : a positive assertion 4 : a solemn declaration made under the penalties of perjury by a person who conscientiously declines taking an oath. An affirmation can reinforce both desired and undesired behaviors. An affirmatio...

Given that almost 40% of married couples end up divorced it might work to be selective about whom to invite to your wedding—and, as a guest, which weddings to attend. 1 It's understood that most wedding guests do not accept responsibility for the success or failure of a friend's marriage. Most frien...

Was it good for you? Women : If your partner has asked, "Did you cum?" or, "Was it good for you?" then you have non-verbally caused doubt. Put another way, you have not been in-communication with your partner —talking? Yes. In-communication? No. You have become stuck having rudimentary high school ...

Thanks for your nice acknowledgment StanleyEt. I deleted your promotional material.

Gabby

Must-read topics for engaged couples (free — no registration required) Conversations to have with your intended : 1 The following tips support open, honest, spontaneous, and responsible communication between couples—zero significant 2 withholds —thoughts withheld for reasons. Premise : If you are u...

Do you find yourself having a knee-jerk reaction to someone with tattoos? Does your mind immediately self-correct as your memory automatically recalls what elders used to say and advise about tattoos? If so, it could very well be that seeing someone with several tattoos unconsciously triggers confus...

The way to transform rudimentary (physical) high school sex into exquisite intercourse is to do frequent clearings with your partner using The [free] Clearing Process ). Clearings (a.k.a. be-withs) lead to breathing together. Ironically, synchronous breathing with a partner is referred to as conspi...

Perhaps the most inconsiderate gift you can give a prospective partner is to introduce them to your dysfunctional family * —definitely not a gift of love. 1 [/size] Dysfunctional meaning—family members who communicate abusively (such as condescending put-downs, angry yelling, trash-talking, gossipi...

Must-read for Military Academy Cadets — Military Academy Scandals—a story After reading the ". . . story" imagine if you will, trying to have a mutually satisfying conversation about it with an Academy Commandant. We just know you'd be on the receiving end of lots of justifications, excuses, reason...

This tip (pun intended) is primarily for engaged couples who will have to make a decision whether or not to circumcise their baby boy. It addresses a point of view not commonly discussed in the pro and con articles (traditions, medical, and religious) about circumcision. If your intended has a firm ...

How do I know if it's love? Short answer : If you have to ask, it ain't love. If there's doubt, it's not love. The experience of love is unmistakably unmistakable. And, the experience of love comes and goes throughout each day, (assuming that you are in-communication with each other). If you're not...

What's the sound of one hand slapping? —Kerry's koan Tip : If you think you know the answer, you don't; one knows or they don't. A child who has been slapped knows. ". . . it's what it sounds like when doves cry. —Prince" None of us rest peacefully knowing that we, using our leadership-communicatio...

Do you need to be cheated or deceived? One way to tell if you're ripe for marital infidelity, a mark * for a scam, or a "victim" ** for abuse, is to look and see who in your life would say that they have been scammed, deceived, or abused by you. It's not that you have committed such perpetrations—t...