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by Gabby
Sat Apr 22, 2023 11:50 am
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: Teen Dating Tip
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Views: 27957

Teen Dating Tip

Teen Dating Tip: Teen, the way to cause a date to deceive (abuse) you on your very first date is to deceive (abuse) a parent and not "clean" it up before the date.* Your pattern of deceit has already become an addiction, and, it's not your fault. Children have no choice other than to mirror the inte...
by Gabby
Mon Apr 18, 2022 1:43 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: Oral sex, mastery, infidelity -- a correlation
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Views: 22382

Oral sex, mastery, infidelity -- a correlation

Has your partner/spouse dated someone who had mastered oral sex? Have you discussed it? Would you dare ask? Premise : If you have dated someone who had mastered 1 intercourse, specifically, oral sex, then you have been spoiled--for life. Of all the reasons for remaining a virgin, this one is extrem...
by Gabby
Sat Apr 16, 2022 1:34 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: Accurate divorce predictor
Replies: 0
Views: 21560

Accurate divorce predictor

If, as a teen, you conned your date (now your living-together partner/spouse) into deceiving both sets of parents so as to have sex behind their backs, (and you have yet to verbally acknowledge the deceit to all concerned) then you have been creating lots of breakdowns in communication in your rela...
by Gabby
Wed Feb 23, 2022 1:14 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: Teaching a child how to create happiness
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Views: 21884

Teaching a child how to create happiness

It's most likely your parents didn't know how to disappear upsets (via communication) so as to be happy and so they couldn't teach you how to complete any upset through to mutual satisfaction (happiness) within a single sit-down. This is because their parents, teachers, and clergy unconsciously taug...
by Gabby
Mon Dec 20, 2021 1:27 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: Home-schooling Speech-Communication
Replies: 0
Views: 23664

Home-schooling Speech-Communication

The pandemic presents home-schooling parents with the opportunity to formally (more effectively) introduce their children to the interpersonal, intrapersonal, and intercultural communication variables that affect outcomes. Along with the variables that affect outcomes is the subject of potential (t...
by Gabby
Tue Dec 14, 2021 1:34 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: Three damaging childhood "Don'ts"
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Views: 22943

Three damaging childhood "Don'ts"

Premises : " abuse " A communication is said to be abusive when all concerned don't feel good upon completion. "complete" An interaction, a communication, is said to be complete when all concerned feel good upon completion. Most parents unconsciously dump three damaging admonishments (make-wrongs) ...
by Gabby
Tue Nov 23, 2021 12:58 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: Beauty tip that works
Replies: 0
Views: 23150

Beauty tip that works

Beauty tip that works (it's free) Throughout life we have lied, deceived, and abused others; mostly thousands of non-verbal invalidations, "trashing, stink-eye/roll-eye disses," seemingly small "white-lie" stuff. I.e., "Did you brush your teeth?" * "Did you do your homework?" "Who ate all the ice c...
by Gabby
Tue Sep 07, 2021 3:23 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: What do your tells tell?
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Views: 23560

What do your tells tell?

Do you look loving and approachable, pleasant, and honest or does your face, your aura, reveal that you're dragging around dozens of incompletes ? Would an FBI profiler classify you as trustworthy and honest-looking? For what role would a film casting director choose you? In gamboling a tell refers...
by Gabby
Fri Aug 13, 2021 11:46 am
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: Fun dating games: Show 'n tell, etc.
Replies: 0
Views: 23323

Fun dating games: Show 'n tell, etc.

Some fun things to do on a date with a prospective partner (pre-engagement). Ask them to show you what it sounds, looks, and feels like when they are angry." Full violent rage sounds frightening so, do consider who might overhear you. Virtually no couple when exchanging vows can imagine the violent ...
by Gabby
Tue Jul 27, 2021 3:28 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: Teen tip: How to cause parents to abuse each other
Replies: 0
Views: 23392

Teen tip: How to cause parents to abuse each other

Leadership-Relationship Communication Tip for Young People Scenario : Your parents are fighting a lot; they argue and yell at each other with raised voices that are frightening. It doesn't feel good. There's not much hugging lately. And, you've never heard either of them later acknowledge to you th...
by Gabby
Fri Jul 23, 2021 1:22 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: Are you feeding a "Black Hole?"
Replies: 0
Views: 23339

Are you feeding a "Black Hole?"

A "Black Hole" is described as a dying star that is imploding; it sucks in all the energy around it. The "hole" is so dense that light can't escape from it. This same energy-sucking phenomenon takes place with relationships. Premise : Our integrity is such that we won't allow ourselves to achieve an...
by Gabby
Tue Jul 13, 2021 11:58 am
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: "Be afraid"
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Views: 23380

"Be afraid"

Many children upon encountering their first fearful experience—perhaps darkness or an insect, a height, or a scary movie—will say, "I'm afraid." Most parents reply with their knee-jerk reaction, "Don't be afraid. There's nothing to be afraid of. It's just ..., etc." This well-meant advice invalidat...
by Gabby
Wed Jun 16, 2021 1:25 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: Creating/recreating the experience of love
Replies: 0
Views: 23248

Creating/recreating the experience of love

If you are not experiencing the experience of love with someone close to you it reveals your addiction to deceit; specifically, there are thoughts you have consciously chosen to not share verbally with them and that they have an equal number (yes, the same number ) of thoughts they have not verbali...
by Gabby
Tue Jun 08, 2021 3:34 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: Adoption considerations
Replies: 0
Views: 23474

Adoption considerations

Conversation topics when considering adopting. Shall we adopt a local child? What can an orphan see that most others can't? Considerations about adopting another's child. Orphanages—the good, the bad, and the ugly. Same-sex adopters and the principles of yin-yang. king, kerrith—a story Dear Gabby
by Gabby
Mon May 31, 2021 3:05 pm
Forum: Gabby's Tips
Topic: About climaxes
Replies: 0
Views: 23241

About climaxes

All dissatisfactions with sex reveal that both partners are deceiving each other, both are withholding one or more significant thoughts from the other. Stated responsibly —you are causing your partner to deceive you. With 44+ years of coaching 3-hour consultations I have not found any exceptions to ...