This tip (pun intended) is
for men who have experienced erectile problems or perhaps are
approaching an addiction to Viagra. It's also for anyone wishing
to accelerate the communication mastery process.
For this
tip to be of value you must be willing to set aside all that you
have heard and read, and what you've been told, even what you
believe to true about the source of erectile problems. Keep in
mind a belief murders possibilities.
An erectile problem here meaning, any change from how your penis
used to work, back when sex (including masturbation) was
consistently satisfying.
Next, and this is a biggie, you
must be willing to allow,
however remotely, that the problem reveals that you have
unconsciously been dragging around one or more incompletes into
each present day interaction. In other words, all breakdowns in
communication (we're calling this a
breakdown in communication (an intrapersonal
communication between you and your penis) more accurately,
between your mind and your body) are a consequence of one or
more
incompletes.
An
incomplete here is any interaction, any communication, that was
not mutually satisfying. Most incompletes are left over from
less-than-satisfying childhood interactions.
Given the
above premise, any
breakdown in communication reveals that you and your
partner have not been in-communication with each other;
you have lapsed into
doing your
imitation of communication. Note: If
you have been deceiving your partner, withholding one or more
significant thoughts, then you have caused (yes
caused) him/her to withhold an equal number of thoughts
from you. There no exceptions to this phenomenon.
The word communication here means: Open, honest, and spontaneous
communication, zero significant thoughts withheld from each
other.
The way to get in to (or back into) communication
with someone is for
you to do
The Clearing Process (it's free and it works). The
Clearing Process will support you in identifying the incompletes
and in restoring and maintaining your integrity.
Once
you have completed The Clearing Process you can then invite your
partner to do the process and then you both can do
The Clearing Process for Couples. It will create
space for you to experience satisfying intercourse.