How to cause a man to disrespect youThis tip could also be titled, "How to cause your intended (your fiancé) to eventually cheat on you." It refers to the fact that how you handle premarital sex is a predictor of possible infidelity during marriage.* Don't jump to the conclusion that this is a morality/abstinence tip (see below). To begin with, you'll notice that you probably have not read what follows in any of the relationship "How to . . ." magazines. Why the subject is not mentioned is another topic. Here's how to set it up for a person you're dating, who becomes your spouse, to eventually cheat on you. Note: Men insert the word "female" where appropriate. Any man who manipulates you into having premarital sex,
without first getting clear where your parents are about you
having sex, has a huge character flaw that begs to be caught.
This man is on the way down, he has yet to crash and burn; he
will take those around him down with him. His definitions of the
words responsibility and integrity are grossly inaccurate. The
fact that he's willing to con you into deceiving your parents,
whom he knows would be upset and hurt, reveals a lot about his
character. Such a man will look your parents in the eye and
present himself as an honest truthful person. He will use this
ability to deceive others on you, the co-conspirator, later.
That he thinks nothing of supporting you in deceiving your
father, another male, whom he obviously doesn't respect, should
be a red flag—for most women it's not. The issue of deception
(hiding things/thoughts) from one's parents has become so common
that it no longer triggers a daughter's integrity meter. Again
another topic.
* Read Creating a marriage vow that precludes cheating.
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