Hi Kerry
Thank you for your guidance.
Re: "BTW: Minimizing a perpetration doesn't complete it—because such an acknowledgment covertly and unconsciously contains an explanation, a justification, a reasonable modifier, an adjective that minimizes the incident; it doesn't allow you to experience the sadness, the embarrassment, the grief. i.e. I hit, I stole, I abused —without descriptive modifiers."
I have read and re-read this and am not sure what it means. Am I to add my feelings about the different perps/acks to the description. I have felt all the sadness, embarrassment and grief but have been keeping the admissions stripped down and to the point. Is this what you mean by minimizing?
Thank-you
Elephant
Could you please explain this?
Re: Could you please explain this?
Hi Elephant,
I was referring to your clearing in which you said something to the effect, [. . . I only did it once ...] and another I recall, such as [I didn't hit the dog hard.] I hope this gives you some sense of what I was referring to.
Also, please re-read the instructions and samples.
You're doing great.
Kerry
I was referring to your clearing in which you said something to the effect, [. . . I only did it once ...] and another I recall, such as [I didn't hit the dog hard.] I hope this gives you some sense of what I was referring to.
Also, please re-read the instructions and samples.
You're doing great.
Kerry
Re: Could you please explain this?
Hi Kerry
Thankyou, I understand now, I see I was trying to minimize in some perps/acks . I will be more aware of this now.
Thank you
Elephant
Thankyou, I understand now, I see I was trying to minimize in some perps/acks . I will be more aware of this now.
Thank you
Elephant
Re: Could you please explain this?
Hi Elephant,
Good.
Thanks,
Kerry
Good.
Thanks,
Kerry