Hi CeCe: n n Re: “Thank you very much for removing my clearings." You’re welcome.n n I’ve moved this thread to the SATMB. It’s important that all participants be able to follow our coms so that they can see where communications breakdown.n n Notice that you went unconscious and did not follow the instructions — Re: posted January 24, 2005: “Please don't reply here.” This indicates that you still have unacknowledged withholds, upsets, and perps that are occupying your mind serving as barriers to you being the clear, astute, observant, brilliant person that you are. Do re-read the Eligibility Requirements
, quite often when communication breaks down it can be traced to a perp at the beginning of the relationship.n n Clue: After you had rough drafted your post it would have worked for you to re-read mine. If you had gotten to the truth in your draft, and if it came from cause and not make-wrong, then you would have been whole and complete (in-integrity) and the instruction, “Please don't reply here” would have popped out at you. If you make another wrong and blame them for your upsets, then that’s a perp for which there are consequences, including reading comprehension.
n n n It could save you a lot of time and drama if you’d look now to see if you might be unconsciously building a case against ComCom or me. There’s no need to do that. You and I have mastered finding fault with others so as to dump them; this tut is about creating a whole new communication model. n n When you have completed your clearings, I recommend that you rewrite this last post and see what comes up somewhat removed from the accumulations of withholds and upsets. It is possible to disagree in a way that feels good. n n I also recommend that you re-read the entire Definition of Abuse
and the About the Tutorial
, it’s clear that you have missed some of what the tutorial is about, how it works, what to expect, what you must be willing to experience, etc.n n Please do not reply to this post here on the Message Board. Wait until you’ve completed your clearings and then reply on the SATMB.n n Thanks,n Kerry