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i want help

Post by dee » Mon Oct 06, 2003 4:02 am

you rejected me cause i didnt know where to type i agree and thought it was entered when i submitted but then i seen it wasnt and went back and figured out where to put it in the box immediately and sent it out again i saw my mistake and corrected it right away who can help me to understand what is going on with me and how to see myself more clearly there was comment conscious or uncouncious well the reason im here is to try to change

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Re: i want help

Post by Kerry » Mon Oct 06, 2003 9:52 am

Hi Dee:n n Here’s a copy of the e-mail you were sent after you submitted your agreement.n n Your agreement was not accepted because you did not follow the instructions. As stated below, the tutorial only works for those willing and able to follow instructions. Your post reveals that not only were you not able to follow instructions you were not able to understand what was wrong with your agreement when it was explained to you (see below the copy of the e-mail sent to you between the ======= lines).n n You were not rejected because you “didnt [sic] know where to type i agree.” The word “capital” in the instruction refers to using capital letters on the words “Spouse Abuse Tutorial Agreement.” Ironically you have elected to not use capitals when writing. For example: You type “I” instead of “I.” It’s cute and stylish but it reveals resistance to the norm.n n Dee, please read the following several times: Then set it down and come back and read it again. Eventually you will understand it.n n =======================n n The instructions on http://www.comcom121.org/abuse/about8.htm read—n "I agree to the Spouse Abuse Tutorial Agreement." (The capital letters drawn attention to the fact that it's the title of a specific agreement.) Theren can be no mistakes. You must recreate and own this specific agreement, notn your version of it.n n and again, on http://www.comcom121.org/abuse/agreef.htm the instructionsn read—n n "Enter the following in the space provided below: (All items required)n I agree to the Spouse Abuse Tutorial Agreement."n n Dee, the tutorial only works for those willing and able to follow then instructions. You may submit an agreement once again in three months.n n Take this opportunity to read http://www.comcom121.org/abuse/about6.htm n Often we find that an error such as yours is indicative of an out-integrity. Ann unconscious "lie/accident/error" is one way the mind sets it up to getn caught for perpetrations.n n =======================n n Dee, I recommend that you seek professional help immediately, tomorrow, such as a counselor or a therapist. n n Please do not post again here or on The Clearing Process.n n Thank you,n n Kerry

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