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Hi Maurine:n n Are you willing to acknowledge that you are addicted to abuse? If you are, then the rest of this reply will be of value. If not, if you aren’t willing to see that you are addicted to abuse, then there’s no hope for the relationship. You’ll just have to let life take a couple of turns ...

From Maurine: n n Maurine, I moved this post from the other board. Kerryn n "You don't love me anymore," he jokes for the hundredth time. I ask him if he really thinks that. He keeps joking, "Yes, I do."n n Wanting him to feel secure, wanting to disspell the fears he might be masking with humor, I h...

Hi rvsg:n n Here in America it has become the norm for the majority of both sexes to have had sex with someone before they met their spouse. I’m not sure whether this is a good or bad thing but I do know, based upon my own experience of 65 years, and three wives, and many wonderful intimate relation...

Hi John:n n Thank you for sharing. n n I don't understand why you would post to the Police Spouse Message Board.n n I have quite a bit of feedback for you, however, you didn’t ask for support in completing this matter. In fact, what does get communicated is your intention, however unconscious it may...

This was posted by error in the Police Spouse Message Board - adminn n Corruption In The Old Brookville Police Department & Nassau County D.A.'s Officen n n Hello. My name is John Menso. n n As a former NYPD detective investigator, it saddens me to be placed in a position of having to make allegatio...

A viewer submitted this question from The Clearing Process add-a-FAQ-form. I have since reworded the form so that it reads—n To submit a question about how to use The Clearing Process use the form field. For questions you'd like to be answered post to our Message Board NEWFAQ: Why do you say, "Men i...

Hi Marnye:n n The problem with your question is that you aren’t ready to do what it will take. Free advice is seldom, if ever, acted upon. Your question is just one more essential step in a long long dance of yours. Things aren’t bad enough for you to do what it will take for you to not have abuse i...

Thanks Ag,n n I've e-mailed you the Instructions and Tips.n n Kerry

Hi Ag:n n It's nice to hear from you. The last communication I received from you was, "I'm unable to complete this tutorial from work." Thank you for handling that matter with integrity.n n I get that something has changed and that you are no longer using a .mil e-mail address. n n Please reply to t...

Hi Camille:n n Please post the URL of the page that has the word you call "subject." In other words, you say you click on the "subject" and got no pop up, however, there's no way for me to fix it because I don't know the page (URL) or the word (what you refer to as subject) you clicked.n n Please ac...

I received the following e-mail from abc123. It is posted here for everyone to benefit from.n n ----- Original Message ----- n From: abc123n Sent: Sunday, December 01, 2002 6:10 AMn Subject: hmmmmn n I am not angry. But you seem to be controling and I will not engage in another controling relationsh...

I received the following e-mail from abc123. It is posted here for everyone to benefit from.n n ----- Original Message ----- n From: abc123 n Sent: Saturday, November 30, 2002 2:25 PMn Subject: abc123 gives up - see belown n I didn't realize this was going to be so whacky. I have multiple personalit...

Hi abc123:n n Thanks,n n Kerry

Hi PS:n n Thank you for replying here to my e-mail. My thinking is to have others participate in/witness our conversations. It allows others to correct/coach us both. Many non-tutorial participants monitor the Message Board, and many tutorial particpants monitor it and the SATMB—most in various stag...

scyn: Please do not post here or e-mail us again. You have been banned from posting. E-mails from you will be blocked. Any communications from you will be considered harassment. If you wish to continue you must first have your therapist/counselor e-mail us stating that they can verify that you have ...