Community Communications

Hi Sean, Re: “I tried to uncover our first incomplete,” You either did or didn’t. That you didn’t catch your use of the word "tried” reveals that you were unconscious and out-integrity when you wrote that sentence. * Re: “I told her that was evil of me.” I don’t know where you got that unconscious w...

Hi Sean, In reply to your 27 Dec 2011 05:34 am post. My knee-jerk reply: “Been there done that and, we split amicably.” There’s nothing wrong with hanging out with someone as you each discover what you both want—your respective purposes in life aside from survival—a mutual agreement to use each othe...

This was emailed to me. I post it here for everyone to share in the process. Hi Kerry, I feel uneasy/uncomfortable posting my clearings to the public. Is willingness to post my clearings publicly essential for the clearing process? If yes, then I have to admit that at the moment I can't follow your ...

Hi Shidliwink I asked about therapy because, if you are, it's not ethical of me to get in the way of another's professional support, also if you are, you need to intend that the therapy work or to discontinue it. —the question pertains to one of the Eligibility Requirements for the Spouse Abuse Tuto...

Hi n/a, Thank you for your comments. It appears that you have experienced estrangement (possibly at the advice of another) and, that you are processing how you intended it (however unconscious you may have been at the time). Let me know if you'd like feedback/coaching about your comments so as to co...

Hi Shidliwink, Please check to see if I deleted your specific questions correctly. I got all of your communications and considerations except; I asked, "Please assure me that you are not in therapy or that you are not addicted to a mind-altering substance." to which you replied. “Tsk, tsk. Shame on ...

Hi Shid, Re: “You did not reply to anything I wrote about the board posts.” You didn’t ask me to so I got it as more mind stuff. One either communicates to be right/make another wrong, or to complete an incomplete. You’re more than welcome to make this “THE” incident. The more you want to be right a...

Hi Shidliwink, So glad to hear from you. Got it all. Thanks. You have an excellent understanding of the communication process, the effects of incompletes and withholds, etc. Your reply was easy to follow. I appreciate your ack of your delay in responding. That’s exactly how a perp such as that is su...

Hi Shidli, You're welcome. Got it all. Valid point. If you quote the specific sentences you want removed I'll consider deleting them (and the quote of them) however, all of our coms have been an essential part of our relationship and so my thinking is to not hide anything. Can you tell me what you'r...

Hi Shidliwink, I don't have an easy way to delete a deleted user's email. Glad you had another one." To clear something up: I have to post as "Shidliwink" because the username "PathofLove" was lost or deleted. So I am posting on the Clearing Board and this Message Board under the same username. Let'...

Hi gregorys90, It's time for a recess. Please wait three months from your last therapy session before you reply, post, or email. Thank you. Re: Sharing our communications and tutorial material with your therapist? It would be inappropriate for you to share our coms with anyone; the suggestion raises...

Due to another registration glitch PathofLove emailed me the following, posted here for all to follow: Hi Kerry, Where is it that you suggest to use a short username?--so I can know where I went unconscious. The suggestion was not from you in our emails. I feel like I'm going crazy; I feel afraid to...

Because of a registration glitch PathofLove emailed this to me to post here: It consists of a series of emails. I include them so that a reader can follow what's been happening. Hi Kerry, I registered . . . so that I could continue communicating with you on the board, but you have not approved it y...

Hi Becik, Please post in the Message Board if you wish a reply/coaching. This Message Drop is for comments/posts that do not require replies or answers. Re: "I just want to say thank you for understanding." I'm not sure where you got that I "understand" what you've posted. Above all, you do not need...

Hi BigBearHugs,

Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts.

Kerry