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- Thu Jan 05, 2012 2:38 am
- Forum: Message Board
- Topic: Relationship
- Replies: 4
- Views: 8873
Re: Relationship
Hi Kerry, Thank you for your reply. She has read this com. We have done clearings in person, and via skype. We acknowledge our abuses to each other. I acknowledge I am the cause of abuse. I tried to uncover our first incomplete, and I've acknowledged it and apologized that to her. It was I was enabl...
- Tue Dec 27, 2011 6:02 am
- Forum: Message Board
- Topic: Relationship
- Replies: 4
- Views: 8873
Re: Relationship
I replied to your 27 Dec 2011 05:34 am post first. Green font indicates confusing nonessential fluff. With further contemplation, I came across the two paragraphs that are expected of someone who says they are abusive. With respect, this website has a language to it that many are not used to reading...
- Tue Dec 27, 2011 5:34 am
- Forum: Message Board
- Topic: Relationship
- Replies: 4
- Views: 8873
Relationship
Dear Kerry, My girlfriend has acknowledged that she herself could be happier. Personal self-esteem, self-image, family and friendships are involved in her current condition. I have so far been unable to largely inspire herself. I've tried to reference myself and what makes me feel good when we talk ...
- Sun Sep 11, 2011 4:57 pm
- Forum: Message Board
- Topic: Aloha
- Replies: 1
- Views: 5756
Aloha
Hello Kerry, I am pleased to have this opportunity right now. I'd like to be clear on what you said. "Ask questions on the message board" I believed that I our agreement was to no longer ask ANY questions because that would be subtle abusive communication between us since I've revealed that I am at ...
- Tue Aug 02, 2011 7:07 am
- Forum: Message Board
- Topic: Our father
- Replies: 10
- Views: 16261
Re: Our father
Hi Kerry, I just read as much as I could in the Spousal Abusive Tutorial. I didn't meet the requirements. The biggest one being I still talk to the abusive people in my life like my Dad which I'm trying to resolve. I haven't communicated with him in a week. My mother and Grandmother have a bad abusi...
- Sat Jul 30, 2011 6:37 am
- Forum: Message Board
- Topic: Our father
- Replies: 10
- Views: 16261
Re: Our father
Thank you very much Kerry this is a start I need. So all that nastiness that I "got" My dad is addicted to the abuse/ing and controlling which has me being judgmental self righteous and blaming. RE "Did I tell him" No, I have not told him verbally. I will. About his guilt payments, there is a lease ...
- Tue Jul 26, 2011 5:03 am
- Forum: Message Board
- Topic: Our father
- Replies: 10
- Views: 16261
Re: Our father
Hi Kerry,
I was expecting a response from you. Is this not the place to ask questions like this?
Much Aloha
I was expecting a response from you. Is this not the place to ask questions like this?
Much Aloha
- Mon Jul 25, 2011 5:30 pm
- Forum: Message Board
- Topic: Our father
- Replies: 10
- Views: 16261
Our father
It has come to the point were your comments have come to fruition. I am going to college and I have a lot of aid from my father right now at the moment. I've just completed 2 years of community school. As an incoming freshman he wouldn't commit to my education for fear of drop out but now he is ok, ...
- Tue Jul 19, 2011 6:47 pm
- Forum: Message Board
- Topic: Test post?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 7876
Test post?
I'm not sure if the test post is to make sure I can use this or just elicit a response from you, Kerry. Aloha! I'm missing the green bench at the 'natch'