About the Tutorial (pg. 14 of 18)

You and I produce the results we say we want and the results we say we don't want through our individual communication models. That is to say, how we relate, how we communicate verbally, non-verbally, physically, and psychically, how each of us stands quietly in a crowded room, has an effect. We learned this model, this way of communicating, of making it in the world, when we were growing up through parents, friends, teachers, clergy, and television.

Our present communication model is guaranteed to produce more of the same results. Not unlike the cartoon of a carrot hanging from a stick in front of a donkey, the experience of sustained happiness is ever allusive, compelling us to keep going in the same direction, never reaching the carrot. An ass, a donkey, cannot see the model.

This tutorial, this educational process, communicates to the ground-of-being, the place from where communications (and communication models) are generated. It is from this place that we generate and solve problems. It's about creating an entirely new model. Put another way, you can read and disagree with the entire tutorial and you will still find yourself producing different results.

Part of the tutorial is about having certain conversations now that you should have had when you were growing up. That is to say, each of us were supposed to have specific, mutually satisfying , conversations (from a context of love and support) when we were young. If for any reason you did not have each of these conversations then you are incomplete.

If, when you were age 5, you were told something, rather than had it communicated to you, then the information is there but it's stored as an incomplete. It's not fully incorporated into your automatic preferred behaviors. Many people spend their entire life unconsciously resisting certain admonishments. i.e. "Don't lie," "Don't be sneaky," "Don't be mean." These words told to you rather than communicated will leave you no choice but to lie, be sneaky or mean. Possibly you have been programmed to be self-righteously committed to truth—with no choice but to tell the truth, disdaining those who lie. Most people grow up to be like, or resist being like, their parents. They have no conscious choice and therefore they don't know who they are. Their entire life has been spent trying to be like or not be like someone else.

For example: If your parent was stuck in a relationship that wasn't working, and they couldn't bring themselves to leave it, then they couldn't demonstrate to you how to leave when an abusive conversation cannot be completed to satisfaction. Whatever they told you about life and relationships is there, but it's stored as an incomplete because of the hypocrisy that existed.

The tutorial will bring up such incompletes and allow you to discover for yourself, the truth about what works in a way that will allow you to operate from the truth.

Press Continue to read about "upset, anger and rage." You are not yet agreeing to do the tutorial.