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About the Tutorial
You and I produce the
results we say we want and the results we say we
don't want through our individual
communication models. That is to say, how we relate, how we
communicate verbally, nonverbally, and psychically,
how each of us stands quietly in a crowded room, has
an effect. We learned this model, this way of
making it in the world, when we were growing up.
Our present
communication model is guaranteed to produce more of
the same results. Not unlike the cartoon of a carrot
hanging from a stick in front of a donkey, the
experience of sustained happiness is ever allusive,
compelling us to keep going in the same direction,
never reaching the carrot. An ass,
a donkey, cannot see the
model.
This
tutorial, this process, communicates to the
ground-of-being, the place from where communications
(and communication models) are generated. It is from
this place that we generate and solve problems. It's
about creating an entirely new model. Put another
way, you can read and disagree with the entire
tutorial and you will still find yourself producing
different results.
Part of
the tutorial is about having certain conversations
now that you should have had when you were growing
up. That is to say, each of us were supposed to have
specific, mutually satisfying (from a context of love
and support), conversations when we were young.
If for any reason you did not have each of these
conversations then you are incomplete.
If, when
you were age 5, you were told
something, rather than had it communicated, then the
data is there but it's stored as an incomplete. It's
not fully incorporated into your automatic preferred
behaviors. Many people spend their entire lives
unconsciously resisting certain
admonishments. i.e. "It's bad to lie and deceive."
These words told to you rather than communicated
will leave you no choice but to lie and deceive, or,
possibly program you to be self-righteously
committed to truth—with no choice but to tell the truth
and disdaining those who lie. Most people grow up to be like,
or resist being like, their parents. They have no
conscious choice and therefore they don't know who
they are. Their entire life has been spent trying to
be like or not be like someone else.
For example: If your parent was stuck
in a relationship that wasn't working, and they
couldn't bring themselves to leave it, then they couldn't
demonstrate to you how to leave when an abusive
conversation cannot be completed to satisfaction.
Whatever they told you about life and
relationships is there, but it's stored as an
incomplete because of the hypocrisy that existed.
The tutorial will bring up such incompletes and allow
you to discover for yourself, the truth about what
works in a way that will allow you to operate from
the truth.
Press Continue to read about "upset, anger and rage." You are not yet agreeing to do
the tutorial.
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