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About the Tutorial

The tutorial is a communication process written for a person who is, or has been, in abusive communications, an abusive relationship, and who intends to complete his/her experience of abuse.

The word "complete" here means:

  • free of guilt, blame, shame, regrets, resentments and anger

  • no longer addicted to creating abusive interactions

  • free of karma, consequences or thoughts having to do with deserving abuse

  • to have put to rest the story, the drama of the past. That is to say, one no longer has a need to bring up or explain one's past to others or to use it as reasons for present behavior

  • free of thoughts of punishment, retribution or spite

  • whole, nothing missing, nothing added (in-integrity)

  • have forgiven others and self.

To produce these results you must be willing to be coached and supported in communicating responsibly, from cause. For such a person this process will have a powerful effect.

Press Continue and read that the tutorial is not therapy. You are not yet agreeing to do the tutorial.

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> ...complete...
Throughout the tutorial the word "complete" is synonymous with in-integrity. We say that a person who is whole and complete, all perpetrations acknowledged, is in-integrity.

> ...perpetrations...
In this tutorial a perpetration is something you have done, or not done, for which you feel badly.

If I think spanking a child is wrong and in your culture it's not, then for you spanking a child is not a perpetration. For me it would be. A perpetration is something which from your code of ethics or standards is bad or wrong.

For example: If after yelling at your spouse or child you feel badly, then for you yelling is a perpetration.