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About the Tutorial
For example: The
seemingly healthy partner of a person who is overweight or
addicted to smoking/drugs/alcohol is
unconsciously addicted to abuse and is equally
unhealthy.
Such a person is
called an enabler and is also addicted to arguing.
He/she most likely will adamantly, self righteously
and angrily deny this definition of abuse.
Like an alcoholic
in the first stage of recovery an enabler is in
denial. They resist seeing themselves as addicted
to arguing and to being the enabler, the
source of abuse. Such an individual has
unconsciously refined
his/her "nice" or "loving" act
to hide their intentions, so that they don't have
to work on themselves, their own sickness. Health inspires health.
An enabler focuses on the problems of his/her partner so they don't have to work on self.
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